Pre-Match

The Mate4Life Matchmaking Process is about compatibility over the long term rather than romantic love at the onset. With a focus on the quality of matches not the quantity of matches. Like fortune it favours the brave and one of the bravest moves any of us can make is learning to give up on perfection.

During a confidential consultation I spend time getting to know you. Your personality, values and character strengths. Lifestyle, interests, work and family life. Past relationship, deal -breakers and the kind of partner you are looking for.

I then use this information to create your profile. Which allows me to find your best possible matches from my hand-picked database of people.  Who have also had their own confidential consultation. This means that all individuals are pre-screened.

Match

When I feel I have struck a match both parties will be sent a bio of the other. Once I get the green light the gentleman will receive the first name and number of the lady. He will call (yes call) to organise a date in person, face to face (yes face to face). This date should be short and sweet not long and formal. The key to success here is more 3rd dates and less 1st dates.

Post-Match

I follow up with both of you where you will provide and receive feedback. Giving you a better understanding of what you want. This feedback will also help me help you, find your Mate4life. When people have a realistic sense of what they want there is always someone for everyone.